“This photograph is my proof. There was that afternoon, when things were still good between us, and she embraced me, and we were so happy. It did happen. She did love me. Look for yourself.” This is my proof, Duane Michals, 1974
sex isnt some kind of recreational activity people should be expected to be able to do with strangers or even just people they know but dont really care about. thats why everyone on here is like “sex sucks” when really all theyre doing is allowing somebody to use their body because its normalized. and its damaging on a spiritual level because its really not a purely physical act. that is unless you are somebody who can detach from it in that specific way which is fine and quite common anyway but most people arent like that if theyre the ones who are more prone to being degraded and dehumanized in those situations.
